As a white-identified, cis-gender, queer woman, working on unceded Ohlone land,
I am continuously humbled by how my identities and actions consciously and unconsciously impact those in a relationship with me. It is a lifetime commitment to walk courageously toward my discomfort and meet myself and others with compassion as we culturally and relationally heal together.
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My transformative journey, rooted in self-exploration and healing childhood and ancestral trauma has been shaped by examining my socialized conditioning and relational patterns. This journey has been supported by a deep exploration of polyamory, psychedelic assisted therapy, and unpacking my white conditioning. This courageous & vulnerable path has empowered me to heal attachment wounds, skillfully navigate conflict, release shame, reclaim my sexuality and sexual identity, and foster unconditional self-love.
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Now, I offer guidance to individuals, couples, and organizations, supporting you in transforming your relationships through the joy and vulnerability of authentic connection.
Hi there, I'm Christina Gee (she/her).
I'm an empathetic
Relationship Coach & DEI Consultant.
MY WORK IN NUMBERS
5000+ hours
of professional training
25 years
of personal growth work
5+ years
of coaching & consulting clients
MY APPROACH TO
Somatic Relationship & Intimacy Coaching
I specialize in helping individuals, couples, and other relationship structures to tap into the multidimensional relationships within themselves and others, as we uncover untapped sources of inner-wisdom. Our work will involve cultivating a deeper connection to your body's innate somatic intelligence and bridging the gap between your cognitive mind and emotional body. We will explore self-compassion, relational attunement, awaken erotic aliveness, and embrace the courage and gifts hidden within the most difficult aspects of your being. Together, we will foster congruency and connection, allowing you to thrive in your relationships, including the most intimate one within yourself.
A comprehensive & effective therapeutic methodology integrating Eastern principles of mindfulness & non-violence, with an experiential, body-centered approach to healing, growth, & transformational change.
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Comprehensive Skills 2-year Program
Comp 2 Teaching Assistant
A 12-month in-depth course integrating Attachment Theory, Differentiation Theory, and Neuroscience into a specific model designed to guide and support all types of couples and romantic relationship structures.
Training in Progress
An experiential approach to sex & relationships, focused on releasing shame, clarifying needs & boundaries, embracing emotional connection, and experiencing joy in intimacy and great sex.
Basic & Advanced 2 -year Program
Healing attachment wounds & trauma through the relational field and nervous system, using integrated psychotherapy, somatic strategies, Somatic Experiencing, neuroscience, and spiritual perspectives.
DARe 1 & 2
My Somatic Relationship Trainings & Certifications
A comprehensive overview of core principles and techniques of IFS evidence-based psychotherapy focused on understanding personal and intimate relationships. Supporting clients in healing old wounds and awakening their innate wholeness.
Parts Work 1 & 2
Online Circle in Progress
Relational Somatic Healing (RSH) focuses on healing relational-developmental trauma, within the child-caregiver relationship. In RSH, the practitioner-client relationship serves as a platform for healing & transformation in the present moment. Relational Touch introduces safe, consentual, embodied, relational touch for healing relational developmental trauma.
On-going Relational Touch Mentor Sessions
Foundational skills that empower trauma survivors to overcome self-destructive behaviors. Incorporating techniques from sensorimotor psychotherapy and internal family systems, focusing on treating the effects of traumatic events and traumatic attachment while developing internal collaboration within the client.
TIST Level 1
(training in progress)
A comprehensive 2-year program focused on body-based learning within ceremony & energy matrix. Perceiving & understanding energy, gaining relational capacity within the holistic system, developing conscious responsibility for energetic experience.
Foundational Energy Skills - year 1 & 2
MY APPROACH TO
Diversity, Equity & Inclusion Consulting
& Coaching
I am dedicated to fostering authentic Diversity, Equity & Inclusion within organizations. I develop recruitment strategies that drive systemic change and nurture diverse talent, and I partner with leaders and teams to support meaningful transformation within themselves and in support of creating more equitable and just work cultures.
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Through antiracist facilitation and coaching, I encourage white-identified clients to reflect on social positioning and biases with an emphasis on self-compassion. Believing in the interdependence of humanity, I strive to inspire social change by embracing discomfort, nurturing cultural and relational awareness, and eradicating harm one relationship and organizational process at a time.
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My empathetic approach builds bridges, not barriers, and I am committed to addressing my privileges and biases through an ongoing dedication to antiracism and authentic solidarity.
My DEI Trainings & Certifications
Accredited Coaching Program
Emphasizing cultural awareness, community learning, and personal growth. Fueled by a commitment to social justice with a heart-centered approach to empowering individuals to create more equitable, just communities, workplaces and interpersonal relationships.
Certified Coach
Led recruitment at multiple companies for over a decade. Co-developed and co-facilitated the Equity Advisory Council and various DEI & Antiracist trainings. Completed numerous trainings focused on leadership, recruitment, bias, communication, professional development, and more.
2010 - 2021
Taught by Loretta J Ross, this course takes on the status quo with practical and actionable techniques of Calling In to drive positive social change. ​Utilizing a new language & frameworks to build a culture of transformational social change & incorporating somatic practices to uplift collective well-being.​
August 2023
Developing internal resources and skills to show up authentically and compassionately in all circumstances, learning to care more fully for ourselves and for others, transforming moments of immobility and helplessness into experiences of choice & power with vs power over.
9-month Immersion Program
Designed for white-identified participants, exploring whiteness & bringing awareness to embodied white conditioning that we did not choose but we take responsibility for by uncovering biases, understanding privilege, power dynamics & taking action to create systemic change.
5+ years of training & on-going
My Accountability Statement
I welcome clients of all backgrounds, cultures, ethnicities, abilities, ages, gender identities & expressions, sexual orientations & preferences, relationship structures, and religious beliefs & spiritual paths.
​I honor and celebrate your whole humanity and our differences.
I commit to doing my best to attune to the ways in which my social location is different from yours and hold you with the utmost respect, integrity and care with a focus on "power with" and restorative repair.
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​I strive to show up as "my best self" and I will make mistakes. I hold myself accountable to do the work required to create a container in which you feel safe and celebrated.
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I value solidarity, trust, authenticity, integrity, accountability and repair. I believe we are all intimately & inseparably interconnected. Your liberation is also mine.
Your feedback and perspectives are encouraged and welcome!